Telling Stories

Offline, Dee has been heckling me, urging me to post the real-life stories of our actual sexual interactions, given from my point of view. I like to write, and Dee says she likes to read what I write (I think that has less to do with my writing ability, and more to do with the fact that she sees it as a sort of window into my thoughts), so it would seem to be a logical, easily fulfilled request. But it isn’t.

When writing stories – especially sexual tales – I write fiction. Sometimes I will write something that mirrors my own interests, thoughts, or fantasies. At other times I’ll take an idea I’m not even terribly interested in, and just see where the story goes (if Dee reads these thinking they are windows into my desires, that might be a problem…). I’ve even written a thing or two in which the only intention was to see how Dee reacts to the subject matter.

Maybe one of these days I’ll cut and paste a couple of the shorter things I’ve written – though even those are probably too long for the blog format.

When writing non-fiction, however, I tend to express to my own thoughts, feelings, or opinions, or ponder and analyze a particular piece of information, or a new idea. I frequently respond to something I’ve read, or something someone (such as Dee, in the case of this blog) has written. But I avoid telling stories.

Ironically, this is mostly because it's hard for me to find anything to say when trying to write non-fiction, especially from my own point of view. I end up just reporting the facts in a bottom-of-the-screen-crawler kind of way: terse, to the point… a one- or two-sentence summation.

Last night, for example, we had a nice session involving a number of different positions and activities. We even broke out the toys for a little multiple-points-of-stimulation thing, which she really seemed to get off on (and her enjoyment in the moment, in turn, almost always gets me off soon thereafter!). I had a very satisfying orgasm. But the words don’t flow… it’s just a report, not a story.

Still, after our next real adventure, I will try to tell the story, because Dee has asked me to do so. As always, I’m sure it will be a work in progress – and I think I’ll explain that statement in a post all it’s own, later on... :)

Four questions for today:

1. Name/describe a guilty pleasure you indulge in.

2. Write down five tips about sex which you have learned through experience.

3. Describe the worst/lamest sexual experience you have ever had (in terms of performance).

4. Describe the most fun you’ve ever had (sexually) while alone.