Part Two

And now, part two… a few thoughts on oral sex (blowjobs, that is):

Short Analysis: Very few men ever acknowledge it, and very few women really appreciate it, but this is a transaction of absolute trust. Think about it: When my most sensitive body part is at its most sensitive moment, I trust Dee enough to slip it between her teeth.

What I Like: I like the added visual and audio input that you can get during a good blowjob. I like watching women suck cock in general (porn, pictures, etc.), and I specifically like watching Dee work her magic on me, seeing my dick in her mouth, watching her head moving up and down in my lap, etc. It’s even more of a turn on when she knows I’m watching, and purposely allows me a better view just because she knows I like it. Add to that the audio, and it becomes a full body-and-mind experience – it’s like watching (and starring in) a live porn show while enjoying Dee’s pleasurable company at the same time.

Intimacy Issues: I personally think that a long, slow, sensual blowjob is probably the most intimate of interactions, more so that other types of sex, even more than kissing. It’s hard to explain why I perceive things that way, but I do. On the one side, there is the trust, on the other, selflessness. In addition, unlike a kiss, as a general rule it’s a private interaction shared between the two of us.

The “Erotic” Factor: When I’m confident all Dee wants is to do is suck my dick until I come, I can let go of the worries about selfishness and fully enjoy the experience. When that happens, I find the act itself to be very erotic, and having that freedom to be selfish makes the moment even more sexually satisfying.

What Bothers Me: Continuing the thought above, however, most of the time I can’t read Dee’s ultimate intentions, and often become distracted worrying about the balance of enjoyment. Even when getting me off is the clearly stated goal, I often still feel some guilt afterwards. After sucking me off, Dee is always ready for a good, long fuck, while I’m… decidedly not. For that reason, I usually hold back, which gives me the satisfaction of being able to provide what she wants, but does restrict the full and complete enjoyment of the blowjob itself.

It’s Worth Mentioning: I’ve stuck to receiving, rather than giving, as the question was meant to be about which of the three I prefer when it comes to getting off. Going down on Dee, on it’s own, doesn’t make me come, but it does turn me on a whole hell of a lot. And now that she’s shaved her pussy, eating her out is even more of a turn on.